My Wedding Ring

One of the things that added insult to injury when I was recovering was that I got lymphodema in my left arm.  It's pretty common unfortunately, and actually a small price to pay, but it meant that I was told by various people that I would never wear my wedding ring again because of the risk of my hand swelling and the ring becoming too tight.

I didn't wear it for two years but then we found the most fantasic solution that kept me smiling.  Last Autumn we took a trip to Birmingham for a few days to visit the city which we had only previously been to for conferences.  Amongst all the brilliant things the city has to offer (museums, galleries, restaurants, the canal side, shopping) we spent some time in the Jewellery Quarter where there are still a few shops who will make besoke pieces.

I took my ring into a shop called Elements and explained the problem.  After chatting to Greg for a while he came up with some ideas based on things he had done previously, like a catch to open and close the ring but this would only work if my hand stayed the same.  The problem is that it is liable to change from day to day.  Finally between us we came up with the idea of a child's christening bracelet, which can be adjusted to fit as the child grows. 

Greg thought that this could be achieved with my actual ring by rolling it out and making two tiny bars so that the ring would slide through itself.  He had never done anything like it before but took my ring to have a go.  I left the shop really excited that we had found a way forward and trusting Greg to make it.  He had completely understood my predicament and was just as excited to make it work.

A week later he phoned to let me know that it had been completed and that he was sending it through the post.  When it arrived it was beyond what I had thought possible.  He had even managed to keep the two colours of gold from my original ring.  I have had it on since and there have been no problems with my hand.  I can expand or contract the ring as I need to.  How fantastic....

Nick's ring showing what mine was like originally with my new bespoke ring next to it.

I love my totally original ring but think that there are probably lots of women out there who would like to be able to wear their wedding rings so if this applies to you contact Element.

Harrogate Turkish Baths

I was introduced to this smiley location by Iona.  She had arranged for a group of her friends and family to go for a session to celebrate her birthday in the summer of 2008.  The baths are in the spa town of Harrogate and are amazingly run by the local council. 

You make your way through the different parts of the Turkish Baths, a journey of heating, cooling and cleansing, leaving you feeling relaxed and with a perfectly clear mind.  Taking your towel with you you move through the Steam Room, into the Tepidarium (the warm room), to the Calidarium (the hot room) and if you can take it into the Laconium (the hottest room) before rushing off to jump into the freezing cold Plunge Pool, with showers inbetween all the stages.  Finally you cool down on the beds in the Frigidarium and during the session you repeat this as often as you want to. 

 

Some people use this as a chance to catch up on their reading, bringing books or making the most of the magazines provided, while others are there with friends and use the time to talk and laugh and catch up, and some just want to lie back and relax.  The whole thing ties you into an experience that has been taking place since the Romans had their baths, through the centuries of Turkish Hammans into the twenty-first century.

 

 

 

Here's the link which will give you all the information you need to plan your own visit:

Harrogate Turkish Baths